The Anatomy of Giving

Posted on February 22nd, 2012 by jbivens

Giving can be really easy to do.

Just last night I gave a woman holding a sign some loose change. I did. I never do stuff like that, but she got to me. I have worked at Rescue Missions and I always give to them because they know the real story, they meet the Spiritual and physical need, and they move people towards self-sufficiency. I broke my own rule last night. I couldn’t help myself. Have you ever felt this way? It was a compassion-driven impulse (or perhaps the Holy Spirit).

As I was thinking about Lupton’s words in the third chapter of Toxic Charity, I am captivated by this thought: “if giving is going to be redemptive, it is not simple.” It’s so true. I gave a woman some change on my way from the theater, but I never asked her name, I didn’t hear her story, I didn’t engage her. Because, to be honest, I was in a hurry. Stopping to talk was just too inconvenient. Kind of embarrassing—it’s been haunting me.

My actions last night reinforce Lupton’s point that mercy ministry alone is really insufficient. “Mercy is a force that compels us to acts of compassion. But in time mercy will collide with an ominous opposing force. Injustice. Against this dark and overpowering force, acts of mercy can seem meager.”

We’re familiar with the passage in Micah (6:8) that reads “O people, the Lord has already told you what is good, and this is what he requires: to do what is right (act justly), to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.” Acting justly speaks to fairness and reasonableness in decision making and loving mercy speaks to acting in forgiveness, compassion and kindness—especially to our subordinates.

The marriage of mercy and justice is powerful. It leads to:

  • Immediate care with a future plan
  • Emergency relief and responsible development
  • Short-term intervention and long-term involvement
  • Heart responses and engaged minds

My prayer is that God would continue to challenge me to live a Micah 6:8 lifestyle. Will you join me?

Who will serve, lead, and be served? – Transforming Your Church Part 4

Posted on February 20th, 2012 by TNichols

WHO will serve?

This is obviously a key area, and again will vary by church.  Many churches  are already infused with an energy and desire to serve.  Others are in different places in their local outreach paths.  An objective assessment in this area will drive your plans for communication and who you will equip to serve. 

Some key questions to consider are:

  • Will our entire congregation serve together?
  • Will our small groups serve together (Sunday school, lifegroups, etc)?
  • Will our internal ministries serve together (children’s, youth, greeters)?
  • Will new attendees, members,staff,elders serve?
  • Will guests be encouraged to serve (neighbors, co-workers, etc)?
  • Will families serve together (what ages are appropriate)?

 WHO will lead?

As with any core value of a church, it is imperative to have someone who is the catalyst for the vision, evaluation, and forward movement of that value.  Serving outside the four walls of your church should be a part of your core values.  It is still crucial to have someone who has a passion for local outreach to commit to the overall value.    

Some key questions to consider are:

  • Will it be a Pastor, Director, Administrator, or Volunteer? 
  • Which ministry leadership will it fall under in your church structure? Local Missions, Discipleship, Benevolence, etc.
  • Is the person empowered and equipped to carry out the outreach mission of the church effectively?

 WHO will we serve?

There are many, many opportunities to serve outside the four walls of your church.  Determining the people groups you are being called to help, the community ministries you partner or will partner with, and the ability to serve individual families in need are a significant part of the organizing and preparing your church to serve.     

 Some key questions to consider are:

  • WHO needs to be served in our city?            

                                      Homeless                                 Public Schools                   Healthcare

                                      Less Fortunate                       Youth                                   Families

                                      Disabled                                    Business                               Orphans                    

  • What community organizations/ministries are providing services AND the gospel of Christ?  Do we currently partner with any? 
  • Do we want to focus on specific needs and community ministries? OR Do we simply want to give an “open window” to our members to search and fill community needs?
  • Do we have the ability within our congregation to provide for the physical and spiritual needs of individual families in the community?
  • Do we want to find the needs of families in the community for our members to adopt? OR Do we simply want our members to see and fill the needs as posted by other organizations.

We encourage you not to duplicate what is already being done, but direct your members to serve the many needs of the community through agencies that are already serving the people in need.  Churches and minsitries should be united as one body to make more of impact in Jesus’ name.

Why are we serving? – Transforming Your Church Part 3

Posted on February 17th, 2012 by TNichols

Just as there is a purpose in going in taking a class of students on a field trip, there should be even more purpose in transforming lives into a lifestyle of serving.  The intent and motivation of WHY we are serving brings the end result to the forefront.

Service is the ultimate growth model for a church.  The best church growth plan was the first church plan in Acts.  It was about healing, feeding, and selling all they owned to help those in need.  It wasn’t focused on top notch worship or the most inspirational and relevant sermons.  Demonstrating God’s love is far more powerful than just hearing or talking about it.  It was well said by Saint Francis of Assisi “Preach the Gospel at all times – if necessary, use words”.

Jesus knew people often can’t see past their physical needs to even think about their spiritual  needs.  He knew He had to meet them right where they were.  That’s why Jesus almost always met a need before He told them who He was.  He fed, healed, or counseled those in need (i.e. the woman at the well in John 4), then He told them He was the Son of God.

We should be building a relationship with people through serving their physical needs and then tell them where that love comes from and why we are so compelled to share it with others  – Jesus Christ.

Ask yourself as a church. “Are we serving to . . .”

            connect our members together?

            lead more people to a decision of salvation? 

            bring people to Christ with a plan to disciple them? 

            fill the physical needs of those less fortunate? 

            encourage people to come to our church (increase membership)? 

            serve with other churches and ministries to  unite the body of Christ?                                                                                                                           

More than likely, the reason why you are serving is more than one reason above.  Based on your answers, articulate WHY your church will serve/or is serving others in the community.  Have a purpose statement just for your outreach is a great foundation to leading your members to move in the community.  It could be something as simple as

Serve, Love, Have Fun . .. Share Christ!  

Next blog we will talk about WHO will serve, WHO will lead, and WHO will be served.  Would love to hear from you! :)

The Problem with Good Intentions

Posted on February 15th, 2012 by jbivens

My motives when I serve are noble. I want to do good things: help the poor, care for the sick, share God’s word. It’s all good. But, sometimes I get burned.

I get burned not by those I’m helping—they are generally appreciative and kind. I get burned because serving doesn’t always produce the results I hoped for. Often we put our needs and the needs of our Church ahead of the needs of those we are helping.

The Church wants a three-hour Saturday morning mission experience in the inner city. The Church wants a 7-day trip to Africa to build a well. I want to scoop mashed potatoes onto a plate and peer into the eyes of a hungry child and feel good about it. Face it. It’s true.

What the inner city mission really needs is tutors on Thursday nights, and the village in Africa needs a micro loan program to build sustainable business so they can build their own well, and maybe that hungry child needs a parent with a living wage. I’m not sure—but, I never took the time to find out. I just did what I thought was best.

I’m a “religious tourist.” I’m a “social worker,” not a neighbor. I like to “do things for” other people rather than “do things with” other people. I want a short-term feel-good experience and am not always interested in a long-term investment opportunity.

I have a hunch I’m not alone.

Are you with me? What are we going to do about it?

-These are reflections from Robert Lupton’s recent book Toxic Charity. Christianity Today recently shared this article about the topic.

The Scandal

Posted on February 8th, 2012 by jbivens

Thoughts from Robert Lupton’s recent book Toxic Charity:

So many of us have good intentions. America is in the midst of a ‘compassion boom’ and serving others is pretty popular today. We give and give and give (feeling pretty fulfilled along the way) and often don’t examine the outcomes. Are we creating dependency? Are we destroying any personal initiative or responsibility to provide? Are we disempowering communities or people groups?

Immediate relief is not bad, but Lupton shares in his book Toxic Charity that “when relief does not transition into development in a timely way, compassion becomes toxic.” I’m not really interested in being a part of toxic charity. However, giving a hungry child a hot meal is a lot easier than helping his single mother figure out how to keep a job (with a living wage), have adequate transportation, and not shack up with another abuser. It’s hard. And, really complicated. Oh, and often pretty personal. It involves investing emotion, prayer and long-term commitment. I mean, it’s so much easier to be ‘toxic!’

Bottom line, are we investing in communities and individuals in such a way that we are moving them towards health and self-sufficiency? Or, are we perpetuating the cycle of poverty by providing physical needs without ever addressing the root issues that have led to their cry for help?

Doctors abide by the Hippocratic Oath. Lupton suggests those of us in ministry abide by the Oath for Compassionate Service. Give this some thought today:

(1)    Never do for the poor what they have (or could have) the capacity to do for themselves.

(2)    Limit one-way giving to emergency situations.

(3)    Strive to empower the poor through employment, lending and investing, using grants sparingly to reinforce achievements.

(4)    Subordinate self-interests to the needs of those being served.

(5)    Listen closely to those you seek to help, especially to what is not being said—unspoken feelings may contain essential clues to effective service.

(6)    Above all, do no harm.

Let’s Get Organized and Prepared – Transforming Your Church Part 2

Posted on February 6th, 2012 by TNichols

In order to get the most out of anything, organization and preparation are essential. We find inspiration from Jesus in Luke 6:47-48 when He gave instruction on how to build a house.  With a proper foundation, the structure can withstand anything.

Some questions to consider that will help determine a vision and lay the foundation for successful service outside the four walls of your church are:

          WHY are we serving?

                          WHO will serve? Who will lead?  Who will we serve?

                                        WHERE is our membership in terms of current service?

                                                             WHAT are the needs of our community?

                                                                                 HOW will we mobilize our staff and members? 

                                                                                                   WHEN do we begin this transformation?

The answers to these questions should not be taken lightly.  We will explore these questions further over the coming weeks to lay a foundation in your church for a change in culture, to a lifestyle of serving.

One Can Make A Difference

Posted on February 2nd, 2012 by Jason Wright

“Sometimes I would like to ask God why He allows poverty, famine and injustice in the world, when He could do something about it…..but I’m afraid He might ask me the same question.”  -Anonymous

It’s so exciting to see how ordinary everyday families can truly make a difference in the lives of those in need in our world!  I wanted to share an inspirational story of one such family, the Block Family who through joyful obedience to God are being the hands and feet of Christ today.  The above quote forms the header on their BLOG page where you will find many amazing stories of real people whose lives are being touched in the name of Christ.  Check it out at:

 http://buildingtheblocks.blogspot.com/

We tend to think in our mindset of what’s relative to us – our comfortable homes, churches, schools, doctors’ offices and so on, and we easily forget or even have no idea that the majority of people in the world are nowhere close to our level of comfort.  How often do we walk several hours each way to attend church?  How often do we wash our laundry in a metal tub in the back yard?  How often do our family members die of infections that could easily be treated with inexpensive antibiotics?

We often times get caught in the untruth of “My contribution makes little difference”, so we don’t do anything.  The Block Family gave up their American comforts and now live full time in Guatemala giving their lives for children in need there.  Imagine if they had said “My contribution makes little difference”?  They are living proof that it does!

Tomorrow, February 3rd the Blocks’ teenage daughter Addisyn is challenging everyone to give up their lunch and donate the money they would have spent on lunch for this one day to go to their family’s ministry in Guatemala to fund school scholarships.  So…..a few people giving up their lunch money won’t make a difference right?  You tell that to the children at the Adami Tulu Preschool in Ethiopia who last year were the recipients of Addisyn’s lunch money challenge that raised over $6,000!  One person’s lunch money combined together when the body of Christ takes action can make a huge difference!

Even if you never combine your contribution with others it can still be “KINGDOM HUGE”.  Just buy a person you see on the street this week a lunch, or visit the nursing home and take a few minutes to listen to a resident, or help organize clothing donations at your local pregnancy crisis center and you will BE making a difference.  It all counts for God.  And that is NEVER in vain.

When I skip my lunch tomorrow I’m going to take that time to stop and pray for blessing for the Block Family, for their work, for the children and families in Guatemala.  I’m going to be more satisfied tomorrow knowing I am making a difference than any slap-up lunch could offer!  Where is God calling you this week to make a difference?

-Jason

Who is this chick? pt 2

Posted on February 1st, 2012 by jbivens

After college I began my career in the field of education, and within a year was convinced I had made a mistake. AmeriCorp was calling my name, and I relocated from Boston to Pascagoula, Mississippi to serve as a VISTA Volunteer. I served with a Civic Action Agency to provide adult education / GED resources to Head Start parents. After my VISTA stint was done I decided to hang around for a while. I had fallen in love with the South. I think everyone should live in the Deep South for a few years. It changes you as a person. I learned: worshiping God is okay, relationships can go deep and last long, it’s hot outside so slow down, I have spiritual gifts and I should use them, racism is real, poverty is real, sweet tea is really sweet, and you CAN pray in a public school.

Within 5 years God moved me to Ohio (another story for another day) where I experienced the tremendous joy of living and working in the inner-city. I spent over a decade in Cleveland—half of which was living and working in the midst of extreme poverty and urban decay. During this time I grew to understand God’s heart for the poor like never before. And, the real needs and experiences of city dwellers. I was part of a local church staff team for several years while in graduate school, and then went full-tilt into fundraising for The City Mission. Cleveland taught me: churches don’t need buildings to impact their community, millionaires can drive used Fords, racism and poverty are still real, God is able to provide for all of my needs according to His riches and glory, recovery starts with Jesus, lake effect snow is a force to be reckoned with, and there is a man on the planet crazy enough to ask me to marry him.

Marriage has brought me to Florida and I am excited to continue the journey. Work with Metropolitan Ministries continued to sharpen my passion and skill in the area of rescue ministry and resource development. And, now, Meet The Need is providing an opportunity to mobilize the local church for national impact.

I look forward to journeying together through Robert Lupton’s most recent book Toxic Charity in the coming weeks. It’s a great read—and has challenged me again to focus on true community impact which prioritizes long-term investment and relationships over quick ‘feel good’ outreach events.

We’re Going on a Field Trip! – Transforming Your Church Part 1

Posted on January 23rd, 2012 by TNichols

Remember back to when you were in school.  There was the routine of getting up at the same time every morning, eating the same cold cereal, finding the same seat on the bus, sitting in the same desk in each classroom, having lunch at the same table, knowing the bell was going to ring at the same time throughout the day, listening to the teachers teach the same subjects in the same order for days on end.  Do you remember asking “Why do I ever need to need to know ___________? I will never use this in the real world.”

Now remember those very few days a year that were announced “We are going on a field trip next week!” Everyone goes into a frenzy for simply the thought of something different to do.  An uncontained buzz of excitement, high fives, and laughter fill the room.  There is so much excitement that you can’t even hear yourself think.  You even see a little smile emerge on the teacher’s face for the frenzy she just caused.  You don’t get to linger in this moment for very long, as the teach calls order back to the room.  You think, “Oh yeah, she hasn’t even told use where we are going” (although that doesn’t really matter, you are just ready to get out of school).  She announces where you are going and begins to explain the purpose behind the real life application of what you have been learning for weeks. You aren’t listening to much of what is being said as you have already begun in your mind the anticipation of “the field trip”.

Your attitude changes for the whole week in expectation of the field trip.  You rush home thrilled to tell your parents what was announced in school that day and to ask them to sign your permission slip.  You have conversations with friends on who will be who’s “buddy” that day.  You even begin to think about what your mom might pack for lunch that day.

On the day of the field trip your entire routine is thrown out the window and there is a carefreeness (I don’t think that is a word) about life, even if just for a day.  Your day started the same with the alarm clock going off, but there is pep in your step.  You don’t eat the same breakfast; instead you opt for something warm.  You don’t sit on the same seat on the bus on the way to school, because you sit with who is going to be your “buddy” on the field trip.  Instead of hearing the same bells ringing, you hear the same energizing buzz (all day long) that you heard when the teacher announced the field trip.en begin to think about what your mom might pack for lunch that day.

And here comes the thing you were never anticipated to happen . . . you learned why you were being taught ________ and how it is used in the real world.  Minds are opened, lights come on, and purposes are found when you get out of the everyday routine.

As an adult, today, do you need a field trip?  We all do!   As a pastor, local missions director, volunteer director, or lay leader are you ready to lead a transformation of your church through going on more “field trips”? Not field trips that require you or your staff to do more work, but instead that empower your people to plan them for themselves.  Getting your congregation outside the four walls of your church, out of their normal routines, serving in the “real world”, putting their faith into action through love, having fun with other believers and best of all sharing Jesus Christ with those that don’t know Him are the keys to changing your culture.  It will bring a fresh wind of attitude, joy, excitement, and purpose to their lives, to their families, to your church, and even to your city.

There are many very good resources (sermons, articles, books, blogs, etc) presented on the why you should serve outside the four walls of your church building.  Bottom line is that it is the fulfillment of The Great Commission.  Meet The Need is the application of how.  You don’t have to plan a big event. Simply encourage your members to do their own family, small group, neighborhood “field trips” to serve others.  With Meet The Need all they have to do is search and adopt needs directly from your website.   Jesus served as a lifestyle by meeting people right where they were, not planning big events.  Lead your members to do the same throughout the year.

5 Ways to Prepare Your Church for Christmas Outreach

Posted on December 1st, 2011 by TNichols

The holiday season should be a time of joy – a time to be thankful

for God’s blessings and to share those blessings with others. Yet

for many of those in ministry, the holidays are a hectic time of

year. There is so much need and we are so busy trying to rally

people and resources to meet those needs, that we can find it

difficult to slow down enough to enjoy the season.

A significant joy and time “sapper” for churches and ministries

during the holidays is the challenge of recruiting and managing

volunteers. Traditional methods of communicating needs, taking

sign-ups, handling cancellations, and determining who-did-what

are far too labor intensive. But there is now a way to do all of

those with much less effort, while also getting much better

results.

Let’s examine the traditional methods for the 5 Steps of Volunteer

Recruiting and Management and compare to the brand new

methods that are now (finally!) available for each of those 5 Steps

through Meet The Need.  Read More . . .